A couple years ago, I had the opportunity to celebrate a close friend turning 30. His wife gathered friends and family together from all over the country to eat BBQ, play cornhole, and celebrate. The weather was perfect. It was one of those nights where all the doors were open, the air conditioning was off, and people moved seamlessly inside and outside of the house. Their house was beautiful, and everything was in abundance: food, friends, conversation, and laughter. It was the perfect birthday celebration.